Sunday, June 21, 2009
What would you do if....
We all have dreams and I am sure that everyone has thought of something. We would pay off debts, give money to our parents, siblings, invest some, save some, but most importantly I would give a majority of it to find a cure for Diabetes!
It’s not often that I complain about this stupid disease, but this weekend has been a rough one.
I have good control of my diabetes. I check my blood sugars, and watch what I eat, and I am so very lucky that my parents fought to get me on an Insulin Pump at a young age. I have so much freedom – for a diabetic. I had a really high blood sugar on Saturday because my tube on my Insulin pump wasn’t primed correctly (which happens from time to time with technology), and I wasn’t getting the correct amount of Insulin for about 4 hours. We were enjoying the movie “The Proposal,” so I didn’t really feel it until we got home.
My Saturday and Sunday were wasted with feeling sick. I had to correct the problem – which took about 6 hours to do, and now I am dealing with the aftermath – severe headaches, loss of appetite, drowsiness, and now - frustration.
Frustrated that there isn’t a cure yet. Frustrated that it takes so long to snap out of a high blood sugar. Frustrated that I spent my Saturday night (which was our date night) feeling sick. Frustrated that I had to wake up every ½ hour to re-check my blood sugar. Frustrated with the headache that I have. And frustrated that it’s 5:18 p.m. on a Sunday night and I don’t feel better.
Okay. That's it. I apologize for this "venting post," but I had to share my frustrations...
There is a lot of fun events to attend this summer that will directly go to finding a cure for this disease. I know Parish and I will be attending a few. Check out the link above and if you are interested - I encourage you to attend. I think I can speak for thousands in Minnesota alone when I say - we would greatly appreciate it!
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
Jackson is 3!!
Our little yorkie turned 3 today!! Here is a video of him opening his present. :) What did he get - you ask? Only his favorite T-bone treats and a new bone.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
More 2009 pictures
Spring 2009 pictures
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Parish
I think part of the reason why I am so inconsistent is that we don’t have any kids yet. Well, besides Jackson – but we can’t really post a whole entry on how adorable he is everyday when he steals P’s socks while he is in the shower, or how at night when we say “let’s go to bed”, he grabs a baby (his stuffed animals) and when we wake up we have about 10 more in bed with us, or when he wants to cuddle – he comes right up to you curls under your neck – like a fur collar. Maybe, I could write a whole post on how darn cute he is, but I thought we would do something different this time.
I am the main author of this blog, and after surfing the many other blogs that I view daily, I came up with a plan (well, I am borrowing this idea). I am going to have P take over this post! So, here is it, straight from the mouth of the man of my dreams, the one and only – Parish William Barten…
What is your favorite thing about your life?
Life in general is good. I love my family and friends.
What did you think when Sarah told you she was starting a blog?
I thought it was typical - she's my busy little bee.
If there is one thing that you could say to your “readers” what would it be?
Smile. I am a one-word answer type of guy. It's what I do.
What is your favorite memory of you and Sarah?
Everyday. It seems to me that we laugh about something new everyday.
In your words, how did you ask Sarah to marry you?
Actually, it was in my own words, I prepared a note and with a drop of a knee and a few paragraphs later - I asked her if she would marry me. And she said yes.
In a typical day, what do you do at work?
Preventative maintenance of a water and sewer infrastructure.
Why did you choose the profession that you are in?
I did it while I was in high school for a part time job. And I am a third generation public works employee.
Where would you want to retire?
Grand Rapids, MN
Would you let Sarah get another dog? Why?
No way, they are too much work. Plus, we want kids.
What is your favorite thing about your home?
The chance to finally be able to see my wife, my TVs and I am partial to the hardwood floors that I installed with my grandpa.
Any fun summer plans?
To go North as often as possible.
What is the best trip that you have ever been on?
Probably, our trip to Michigan last year, because it was the first trip we experienced as a married couple.
What do you love about Sarah?
Her kindness, her personality, her ability and desire to achieve more. And I love just her.
Who is the person you look up to the most?
Grandpa Walter. His work ethic is astounding. The way he loves my grandma is priceless and his personality.
What do you like to do when you are not working?
I love to spend time with my wife and dog, watch Gopher hockey, and lay on my ass.
What would you do if you won the lottery?
Oh, boy...nobody set their alarm clock.
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There you have it. Parish. And his one-word answers. :)
Saturday, May 23, 2009
A new found love...
While we were on break from the internet - we managed to pack in tons of fun these last few weeks! Here is a recap...
- We spent three weekends in a row with the McDonald family. We did everything from spend time with the godchild, playing "over the fence" volleyball with our little JJ, and Parish helped Josh build a rock wall at the cabin - which ended up falling back into the lake. At no fault of their own, of course.
- I started to get back into photography a little bit and had the pleasure of shooting my first wedding of the season on May 16. Congratulations to Kris and Dan Lavigne. I am especially excited because Parish bought me design programs for our new laptop for my birthday. Now I can edit, create slideshows, and doing pretty much everything I want to make all of our memories that much better. After this post, I plan on starting up the program and taking it for a stroll.
- I had the opportunity of getting a personal tour (with my boss) of the new gopher football stadium. I was so impressed with the locker room - it is in the shape of a football, 65 yards long, 25 yards wide - it is incredible. I just might become a football fan now...
- We ended up snagging a GREAT deal on a new cuddle chair for our living room. It matches the couch that we bought last year perfectly, so we did a little rearranging...
- And speaking of that, Parish and his Grandpa put hardwood floors in our dining room and kitchen and it looks like a brand new house! It is so beautiful and I am so lucky that Parish and grandpa are so talented.
- Finally, today was an awesome day. I rediscovered how much I like shooting a bow and arrow. Parish and I were slightly bored this morning, so we went out and explored the town of Princeton and discovered Whitcombs. What a great place. I used to do archery back in the good ole days, and loved it - but never took it any further than deer camp. I picked up a magazine and am looking at bows to purchase. I think it might be a great new hobby for me. Who knows - I could get really good at it.
Once I find the connection for our camera I will post updated pictures! I hope all is well and we are glad to be back in the world of technology!
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Through the storm, there is light.
It was May 1st last year when she found out that there was something spotted on her mammogram. Days later, she received the diagnosis that no woman wants to hear – you have breast cancer. GULP. Cancer? That word hasn’t been spoken too often in our home and never did we think it would affect us directly. But it did. It has been a long road – full of many rain clouds, heavy storms, blowing wind, and sunny days full of twists and turns. Through her journey, we had unforgettable 7 day forecasts that predicted what the outcome could be, quickly followed by the possible unforeseeable cold front that could move in and totally change the outcome.
Until now.
The forecast given yesterday was warm, sunny, and clear. “She looks fantastic,” the nurse said. “Your scans were clear.” There has been no reoccurrence. This was a breath of fresh air for our family, especially for my mom. This check-up was probably the hardest that she has been through because it was so close to the 1-year mark. But she made it. She is in the clear!
We can pack away the umbrellas, store the rain boots and dance in whatever rain may come our way, because we are done.
Yes, she will still have check-ups (yearly now), and will continue to meet with her oncologist, and get her results the day of her mammogram for the next 4 years, but that’s all standard procedure.
It’s terrific news and even though we are facing this winter storm in April, our family can see the light. And it’s a great thing to see.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Prayers for Stellan
Monday, March 2, 2009
Not Me Monday!
This week, I did not run out of checks, pay all of our bills by phone (with some additional fees), because I was too preoccupied to reorder our checks two weeks ago when I saw we were getting low. That would be ridiculous. I am always on top of the ball and things never slip my mind. Nope. Not me!
Because of my newfound interest in politics, I haven’t missed an important Presidential speech for the last year and a half. So I totally did not skip over the President’s speech last week to stay up watching movies with my sister until 11 p.m. and miss all of the information that I was waiting to hear, partly because I was annoyed our regular programming wasn’t on for the evening. Nope. Not me!
I did not jump for joy because of the snow that we received last Thursday because I knew that Parish had to go to bed early to get up and plow (at 2 a.m.) and I could actually get some cleaning done. No way would I have done that. And obviously, there was NO WAY that after I got our whole house cleaned, dusted, vacuumed, that it was a complete disaster on Saturday morning. Nope. Didn’t happen here.
On Friday night, P and I went to a Chamber Gala in the cities. I was excited for a fun night away, with great company and a delicious meal. You could imagine my surprise when I found out that the dinner option was steak and shrimp. I did not forget that that one – it was Lent (and took a few bites of my steak) and two – my allergies to shrimp before moving the shrimp to the side (after it was laying on top of my steak). I also did not have to give myself medicine for the hives I had on my face and arms when I got home. Nope. I wouldn’t forget those things.
P and I spent the weekend at Josh and Kris’s house – we were all planning on going to the Science Museum on Sunday. I most certainly did not wake up Sunday morning only to realize that I didn’t pack any undergarments. So I didn’t make my husband travel to the store to buy new underwear for me. Nope. Oh, and my husband definitely did not return from the store with granny panties for me to wear. Nope. Totally didn’t happen.
I wasn’t just as excited as a child is on Christmas when we all arrived at the Science museum. Nope. I didn’t run around (with our friend’s 3-year old) pulling every lever, turning every crank, and pushing every button in order to see how science works. Nope. After all, I am an adult. And I certainly didn’t step in front of other children so that I could experience it first. WHO does that in public? Not me.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Hi! I'm Sarah, What's your Name?
Where do I start? January 11 was Parish and my 5th year anniversary of our first date. Some may think it’s elementary to keep track of that stuff. It may be, but not with the story that we have. Milestones like this are meant to be celebrated. We’ve accomplished so much together (more than we could have without one another) in those 5 years and are only looking forward to what else we have in store for us in the future.
Here are some fun facts about us (and I promise to keep this short, because I could go on and on)
- On January 2, 2004 we saw each other at Buffalo Wild Wings and literally smiles just peered on both of our faces. I had never felt butterflies like that before, still do.
- On January 11 we went on our first date (Bri, you might remember this) – he serenaded me to “You’ve Got That Lovin’ Feeling” by the Righteous Brothers, had the women in the bar in hysterics, and we received endless compliments about our chemistry – on a first date? Who knew?
- In the first Valentine’s Day card he gave me, he wrote – “who would have thought we’d go from playing basketball with Ben to a romantic evening on Hwy 10. He used to come over to my parent’s house (on rollerblades) and shoot hoops with me, then we had a poor man's getaway in St. Cloud at an establishment on Hwy 10.
- The first time he ever said, “I love you” to me was the day after St. Patrick’s Day. He drove to my house at 7 a.m. and caught me before I left for work. What a day that was!
- The first time I ever said I love you to him was a slip up. We went to a Gary Allan concert, and we were on our way home. I meant to say that I loved it when he wore his hat backwards, but I slipped and looked at him and said “I love you.” I said it first.
- Parish was my 8th grade crush, and promised my parents that he would be back in 10 years to marry me. We got married 10 years, 2 months and 14 days later.
So 5 years after our first date, and 2 years and 3 months into our marriage – he surprised me with an upgrade of my wedding ring! I am still in awe of this wonderful man that I am proud to call my husband.
In other Barten news –
We have a new cousin!!
Clayton Lawrence Reintjes was born at 8:30 a.m. on Thursday, February 19, 2009 to my cousins Dan and Lisa. He was 8 lbs, 8 oz, 22 inches long. His siblings are Gavin and Brooklyn (you may remember those little cuties from our wedding).
We had a pretty low key Valentine’s Day. We went to a wedding (our old neighbor Sherri and her fiancé Mike tied the knot) for a little while and then headed home to snuggle up and watch some movies. The night before that, Parish and I watched JJ and Kallie McDonald – how sweet are they!
Parish is looking forward to Hockey State – he and his buddies are planning on painting the town for a night in Minneapolis. I am looking forward to relaxing as much as possible this weekend – we had WAY to many people sick at work and I am so thankful that I have fought it off and haven’t caught this bug yet – I know, can you believe it?
Oh - and Parish's mom and grandparents are coming the first weekend in March. We can't wait to spend some time with them.
Have a great weekend!!
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
50 Nifty Facts
1.) My favorite color is blue.
2.) I love when I come across old books from my childhood.
3.) I used to snoop at my grandparents house, hoping I would find something spectacular. After they both passed away I realized that everything I found was what I was always looking for. And everything was spectacular
4.) I have wonderful parents who have always gone to the ends of the earth for me.
5.) I have two sisters that are my best friends.
6.) My sister in-law is so great – we have become really close over the last few years, and I cherish that.
7.) I married my 8th grade crush.
8.) The summer I turned 15 was the summer that forever changed my life.
9.) I dislike diabetes, but I hate cancer.
10.) I was destined to be a dog owner.
11.) I love my dog Jackson so much.
12.) I love my husband’s family.
13.) I read the obituaries, scanning them for unusual causes of death or people who led interesting lives, but were never recognized in the newspaper until their deaths.
14.) I am drawn to historical stories of tragedy – like the Kennedy Curse.
15.) My Grandma Ruth lives in Michigan and is going to be 91 in 2009. She is an amazing woman who I love so much.
16.) I wish my husband wouldn’t have lost his father so young.
17.) I love shopping for gifts for other people.
18.) My favorite books are Tuesdays With Morrie and Marley and Me.
19.) I plan on providing my children (someday) with the best life possible.
20.) I love my job and the company I work for. I feel rewarded and blessed.
21.) I love learning new things, but really didn’t like school.
22.) I am more of a hands-on learner.
23.) I love to dance. And sing. Even though I am good at neither.
24.) Target is my vice. If I am bored, that’s where I will be.
25.) I am scared of losing the people closest to me.
26.) When I was younger, and my sisters and I played house – we always started our “playtime” with a theme song. That’s how they did it on sitcoms – I thought that’s how you were supposed to do it.
27.) I love helping my dad with anything and everything around the house.
28.) I love my annual trips with my mom to Duluth – even when they haven’t held the best of news in the past.
29.) I am so proud of both of my sisters for all they have done in their life.
30.) I love my niece and nephew so much.
31.) I used to be scared of thunderstorms, but now I am a certified storm spotter. Once you understand the beauty of a storm – they are not so scary anymore.
32.) Parish and I find happiness in the simple things in life – a good meal, a nice movie, a good nap, and our sweet dog who shows us so much affection.
33.) I am proud of Parish and I for all that we have done together.
34.) I am excited to be a mom (and no, I am not pregnant…yet).
35.) I love the feel of clean sheets.
36.) My best friend Sara, I swear was my sister in another life. I am so blessed to have her in my life.
37.) I love to cry at sappy movies.
38.) I love getting mail – even if it is bills.
39.) I think my husband has the sexiest legs I have ever seen.
40.) Writing is a hobby I truly enjoy.
41.) I love creating wedding invitations.
42.) I have yet to start my treadmill regimen on a regular basis.
43.) I pray to God almost every single day.
44.) I love the Chronicles of Narnia series.
45.) I like to volunteer my time to help others.
46.) My college experience was incredible.
47.) I wish we could travel more, and someday – we hope to.
48.) I don’t believe in New Year’s resolutions, probably because I haven’t ever fully followed through with one.
49.) I love reading other people’s blogs.
50.) I have a list of goals that I want to accomplish in my life, which I revisit every few months.
Monday, December 22, 2008
It's almost here!
Here's a update of what we have been doing:
1.) Christmas is this week! YES!! I am so excited, and yet a little sad, as this is our first Christmas without Gooner. I know he will want us to focus our efforts on the true meaning of Christmas and enjoy each others company - so that's what we'll do. He has never asked for anything in the 6 years that I knew him, but before he died he did tell us that he wanted a scanner this year for Christmas. That is one purchase I wish we had made.
2.) Parish is off call today! Poor guy has been on call for the last 2 weeks - don't get me wrong, he loves his job and everything that comes with it, but it gets to be a long night - especially with all of the snow we will be getting. I think we will celebrate tonight by enjoying a nice, cold beer!
3.) I am done shopping!! I have wrapped everything and I am so excited about giving everyone their gift. I know this holiday is so much more than giving/receiving gifts - but I love bringing smiles to everyone's faces! We'll be sure to post pictures after the Holidays.
4.) Ashley is done with college! Congratulations to her for graduating a semester ahead of time! I know you will be a success!
Nothing too much is happening on the home front. We are just excited and ready for a happy and healthy 2009 - that hopefully will have a lot in store for us!
Oh, and to all who gave us Christmas cards - thank you! Our cards will be sent out after the Holidays. We were a little late getting on the ball!
Happy holidays - much love.
Sarah and Parish
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
The Bucket List
The Bucket List
Place an X by all the things you've done and remove the X from the ones you have not, and send it to your friends.
This is for your entire life!
Gone on a blind date. X
Skipped school. X
Watched someone die.
Been to Canada.
Been to Mexico.
Been to Florida.X
Been on a plane. X
Been lost. X
Been to New York.
Gone to Washington. DC X
Swam in the ocean. X
Cried yourself to sleep. X
Played cops and robber.
Recently colored with crayons. X
Sang Karaoke. X
Paid for a meal with coins only? X
Done something you told yourself you wouldn't? X
Made prank phone calls. X
Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose. X
Caught a snowflake on your tongue. X
Danced in the rain. X
Written a letter to Santa Claus. X
Been kissed under the mistletoe. X
Watched the sunrise with someone.
Blown bubbles. X
Gone ice-skating. X
Been skinny dipping outdoors. X
Gone to the movies. X
1. Any nicknames? Lovey, Sadie
2. Mother's name? Barb
3. Favorite drink? Diet 7-up or Riesling Wine
5. Body Piercing? Ears. Used to have navel pierced
6. How much do you love your job? I feel very blessed to have my job. The company that I work for takes great care of its employees and I love what I do.
7. Birthplace? Duluth, MN.
8. Favorite vacation spot? Florida, but I am open to new suggestions.
9. Ever been to Africa ? No
10. Ever eaten just cookies for dinner? yes
11. Ever been on TV? yes12.
Ever steal any traffic signs? Do old license plates count?
13. Ever been in a car accident? yes, just this year.
14. Drive a 2-door or 4-door vehicle? 4-door
15. Can you drive a standard car? Assuming that standard = manual, then yes.
16. Favorite pie? Pumpkin pie WITH whip cream or Blueberry pie
17. Favorite number? 14
18. Favorite movie? 13 Going on 30
19. Favorite holiday? Christmas
20. Favorite dessert? Pie or a dilly bar.
21. Favorite food? Italian
22. Favorite day of the week? Saturday
23. Favorite brand of body soap? Dove
24. Favorite toothpaste? Crest with extra whitening
25. Favorite smell? cinnamon
26. How do you relax? I read books. Sometimes the same ones over and over.
27. How do you see yourself in 10 years? I hope to be a mom by then, living in a bigger house and doing exactly what I am doing now.
28. Furthest place you will send this message? I am posting this on my blog, so anyone can read it.
Friday, November 7, 2008
Kathryn Louise Rae McDonald
Kathryn Louise Rae McDonald was born at 6:08 p.m. on Thursday, November 6, weighing in at 7lbs, 11 oz and 19 in. long.
We haven't met her yet (hopefully really soon), but we are told that she is absolutley perfect, little blond hair and cute as a button. (no doubt!)
Her older brother JJ is very proud of his new sister too. I believe he was already telling her how much he is going to protect her. Awww...
I will post pictures soon!
CONGRATULATIONS! We couldn't be happier for you guys!
What to get a person who has everything...
If you are interested in seeing a catalog, or hosting your own Home Show (and receiving free jewelry) - please email me at bartenjewels@gmail.com.
Here's a sneak peek at what I am doing for my hostesses in January - so if you are interested in doing something in January, please let me know!

Thanks and have a great weekend!
Friday, October 31, 2008
Amazing miracles and the love of family...
First and Foremost...Happy Halloween! I love this Holiday! Normally, every year, Parish and I spend the night at our house with Jackson, handing out candy to all of the little ghosts and goblins of our neighborhood. This year, since Halloween lands on a Friday we are skipping our normal tradition and heading out for a costume party at the Bednar's! I am not going to reveal what we are planning to be (I will post pictures on Sunday or Monday).
I've been doing a lot of thinking the last week or so about things. Its no secret that we've had a strange year...with many ups and downs. Most recently, we both experienced a death of a close family member within the last 2 weeks. It's kind of surreal how when you are faced with a life-altering event some families become closer, and others - well they drift apart. I never understood how you could do that.
I am so thankful that our family, stuck together and is able to become stronger because of the love and support that we show each other. If I have learned anything this year, it is family is [can be] stronger than anything. When my mom was diagnosed with cancer - our whole family talked almost 4X's a day, sometimes even more. When Parish's dad passed away, even though our loss didn't seem fair, we were all supportive of each other and understood that no matter the role that you played in his life - you were hurting too. I have been following a blog, that I have mentioned several times before - that proves that family is number one.
I just wanted to share that with you again...
What an amazing miracle that has happened for “MckMama” and her sweet little boy. As I mentioned in previous blogs, if you haven’t had a chance to review their site – please do. The link is: http://www.mycharmingkids.net.
Here is an excerpt from her blog…
MckMuffin is our sweet newborn son S! In the womb, he was diagnosed with heart failure: premature atrial contractions at 20 weeks; supraventricular tachycardia, hydrops, and intermittent advanced secondary heart block at 23 weeks; and enlargement of the heart at 32 weeks. When the doctors told us at 24 weeks that our very ill baby would surely die, we chose to give our son completely to God, for He alone knows best. We have not stopped praising our Lord since then, for MckMuffin was healed and was born a well and whole full-term baby!!
And this from one of her entries…
"We can't find anything wrong with his heart at all!" After a barrage of tests, Stellan's heart has proved to look like nothing but a perfectly healthy newborn heart. "I would never have known anything was wrong with him!" The head NICU nurse who attended Stellan's delivery couldn't stop talking about how glad she was to have come to a birth where she ended up not being needed!!!
That is amazing!! I am so happy for that family! If you haven't had a chance to read it - I highly recommend it!!
We are looking forward to some family pictures soon (haven't booked the date yet), and my favorite time of year is coming up...Xmas shopping! I love searching for that perfect gift...
Haylee, our niece turned 3 (although, I can honestly say she is 3 going on 6). Her quick wit and smarts are so impressive! Every time we see her, she amazes us more.
Brooklyn, our cousin - who is pretty much like our niece, turned 4 on the 24th and I spent almost a whole day with her singing the Apples and Bananas song - I love those precious moments.
And lastly, Parish turned 31 on October 16th! He now is the proud new owner of a surround sound system in our living room. He now has the perfect combination for viewing his weekly football games.
Have a Happy Halloween and be safe!
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Update.
On another note, our great uncle Rod passed away last week and his funeral is tomorrow. Please keep their family (and ours) in your thoughts and prayers. We know all too well how hard it is to lose someone you love dearly. May the memories of Rod bring peace and comfort in the coming months.
Halloween is Friday and we are celebrating with our friends - I will update you once I get some pictures taken! Stay tuned to what Parish and I are going to be!
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Happy Anniversary Honey!
Can't wait to celebrate 100 more anniversaries with you! :)
